We at Denver Institute for Faith & Work had the privilege of welcoming author and psychiatrist Curt Thompson to Denver. We began with a conversation with pastors on how shame influences our brains, our vocations, and pastoral ministry; we then heard Curt speak at Colorado Community Church to 150 attendees on how to heal shame through retelling a different story about ourselves; he ended his time giving a workshop on shame for therapists in the Denver area.
His combination of neuroscience, psychiatry, interpersonal biology, Christian theology and spiritual formation practices was, well, I’ve never heard anything like it…
The videos of his talks will be available on our Vimeo channel in about a month. Until then, here are some of my favorite quotes from his time with us.
Seven Quotes from Curt Thompson on Shame
1. “Shame is directly connected to your ability to do creative, liberating work.”
2. “Shame was operative in the garden of Eden even before Eve ate the fruit; the serpent introduced it before the Fall.”
3. “We are best able to create, as God does, when we are ‘naked and unashamed' (Gen. 2:25).”
4. “The healing of shame takes place through the process of being known, through vulnerability in community.”
5. “Pastoral ministry is one of the hardest jobs on the planet. Where can pastors go to talk about their shame?”
6. “If you were not afraid of being ashamed, what risks would you take in your job?”
7. “Paying attention to the Holy Spirit is first paying attention to your body, and how your body is responding to shame.”
A version of this post first appeared on the Jeff Haanen's blog.
Jeff Haanen is a writer and entrepreneur. He founded Denver Institute for Faith & Work, a community of conveners, teachers and learners offering experiences and educational resources on the gospel, work, and community renewal. He is the author of An Uncommon Guide to Retirement: Finding God’s Purpose for the Next Season of Life and an upcoming two-book series on spiritual formation, vocation, and the working class for Intervarsity Press. He lives with his wife and four daughters in Denver and attends Wellspring Church in Englewood, Colorado.